Without consent I’d find it creepy, with consent I’d find it creepy but accept that it was something my partner wanted to try that didn’t particularly harm me personally. It would also depend on the AI’s privacy policies.
If you need to ask that to internet strangers it means that you don’t know your significant other.
It would definitely be a complement, though your SO may not take it as a compliment. 🫶🏿
I would be fine about being asked, asking wouldn’t affect the relationship, but I would say no because I don’t want it.
If they did it anyway, or without even asking, I would end the relationship and probably make a police report. How many other boundaries are they willing to cross or have already crossed? Is there a camera in my shower? It would make me incredibly worried to deal with that level of disrespect.
It’s unethical if it’s without consent.
But to ask for consent I need to gauge what their reaction might be.
I mean my friend would.
Because he is the one who asked me to ask.
Ok I’m convinced you’re a troll now.
Not a troll just having a bit of goof. You ever done that, have a goof?
They’re pretty indistinguishable when there’s no clear punchline.
Hey, I’m not here to sus out your brand of comedy.
I don’t really like having photos or videos of me made, so probably an outlier here. If I was comfortable recording us having sex, then I think I’d be A-ok with an artificial version too.
That just sounds like giving personal details to a 3rd party that they might not be consenting of.
100% my own opinion as a 37y/o male who would never find myself in this scenario. This isn’t a commentary on any other scenarios or sexual preferences except imagining myself in OP’s presented scenario.
- Is your SO someone most people would consider a normal person?
No - Then fuckin roll the dice.
Yes w/o asking 1st - Then it’s incredibly creepy if they find a porn of themselves in your possession and opens a can of worms about what means you used to make it and the integrity of that means to protect the created porn from being viewable by others.
Yes w/asking 1st - Then prepare for an incredibly awkward conversation where you explain why you’d rather spend time making an AI porn of the person you’re fucking instead of spending the time with them or actually romancing/fucking them. Even if they aren’t completely turned off by this scenario then you still look like an ass for wanting to use AI to make porn of SO instead of just asking them to record your own together.
- Only non-wierd scenarios for this conversation to be brought up under:
Long distance/extended periods of time away for each other.
Disabilities where sex is off the table.
SO already has public accessible media of themselves fucking.
Hell, I’ll go against the grain here and say that if my wife wanted to watch porn featuring me, some kind of AI or otherwise manipulated imagery is the only way that’s practically going to happen, and I’d have no issues indulging her in principle.
The main sticking point would be the feasibility of generating that content without feeding my photos to some 3rd party, and more importantly making sure that imagery never leaks outside of her direct personal and private possession.
I’d very much prefer to give consent, but if she were to do it on her own, my main issues would again be around the point above. Otherwise I wouldn’t feel much different than if she told me she got off while imagining me on her minds eye. And the same types of caveats would apply: Me with some anonymous 3rd party? Whatever floats her boat. Me with a specific person, or worse yet, someone we know? That’s when it starts to cross a line.
Great, now that’s in my comment history!
Using AI for anything more than diagnosing cancer or scrubbing toilets is unethical
I’ll just right you down as, “insult.”
Better work on those reading and righting skills first
Are you trolling me??
It’s “not something you should do without their enthusiastic consent”.
But if I ask for their consent would they find it disturbing or what?
Just for the record, folks, I’m not going to do it.
Unless…
But if I ask for their consent would they find it disturbing or what?
Speaking for myself, I wouldn’t if an SO wanted to make AI (or traditional art) pornography of me.
But that seems like it’d be a personal thing, and I doubt that anyone here is likely to have a much-better picture of what your SO wants or doesn’t than you. I think that if you guys have a solid relationship, that if you’re not sure, you should at least be able to talk about something like this and your SO should be able to express their opinion on it. I mean, gotta be able to communicate in a relationship.
If you do do it, I would suggest one thing — if you make something, whether it uses conventional art techniques or AI or scuplt them or whatever and it differs in some way from their real life selves — I imagine that they might consider that they might take it as saying that you’d prefer the virtual creation to them as they are. If you start fiddling with their body, have it deviate from its real-life form, maybe they worry that they don’t look the way you’d like them to. If you put makeup on them, clothing, have them pose, whatever, even inadvertently — and with AI image generation in 2025 in particular, it’s hard to have perfect control over what gets produced — they might take that as something that you want them to do.
Thanks for your honest answer!
Instead of asking randoms on the internet why don’t you talk to your SO?
If my partner asked I’d say hell fucking no
If she did it without asking we wouldn’t be together after that, and she’d likely be facing a legal challenge that would inevitably get dismissed after Musk x-cretes that he “finds it hot”
Musk would then proceed to dm your so and ask if they will bear his children.
Why would it be a compliment?
Because given the option of any person in the worl… listen I just need to know what AI porn am I allowed to create without freaking my SO out. I understand the answer is probably none but the pursuit of happiness is what this country was found on.
The only person who can answer that is your SO. Posting on forums is not going to solve the communication issue that is clearly at the heart of this issue.
So you think its possible they’d be totally into it. ✋️
Yes. Why is that a surprise? Only you know the odds but ultimately you have to ask them. There’s no getting around it.
I’m also still not convinced you aren’t a troll but I figured I would at least round out that part of the conversation
I mean if I asked them it would still just be a goof. For me I wouldn’t be insulted just disgusted. Now if they altered my likeness I’d be a bit upset.
Did you ask your SO?
I was going to ask lemmy and see what the vibe is but everyone’s being super cagey.
