• BigLime
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    011 months ago

    I’m fr curious if this can work. If it does, it seems beyond impossible to find a 25 year old college woman who would even want to marry

    • @jet@hackertalks.com
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      011 months ago

      Two 18 year old students about to start university get married. I think it can even be same sex, marriage is marriage.

      Remember Marriage isn’t for life! You and your partner could get married with the understanding this is just a college marriage.

      • Flax
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        011 months ago

        That’s a whole abuse of the purpose of marriage, though

        • @jet@hackertalks.com
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          11 months ago

          A loop hole that is technically correct is still correct.

          What is the purpose of marriage?

          • @MNByChoice@midwest.social
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            011 months ago

            Legally it is a shortcut to establishment of a number of implied contracts, tells the courts how to unwind those contracts, and rights. In some cases the implied contracts are more effective than written ones. Medical decisions and visitation rights being first ones I can think of.

            I sm not a lawyer.

          • Flax
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            011 months ago

            Two people bound together for life for the purposes of creating a family

            • @CileTheSane@lemmy.ca
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              011 months ago

              “You shouldn’t use marriage to stop yourself being legally chained to your parents. The purpose of marriage is to legally chain you to your spouse.”

              If people could “divorce” their parents you wouldn’t have to worry about this.

              • Flax
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                011 months ago

                Only as a last resort. You shouldn’t get married without intending to stay together for life.

              • Flax
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                011 months ago

                If it was for religious reasons, I would have specified it as a “man and a woman”

                • @ShepherdPie@midwest.social
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                  011 months ago

                  Then what is your basis for it only being between two people? You’re defining it just like religion does because that’s where you got the idea even if you don’t realize it.

                  • Flax
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                    011 months ago

                    Because that’s what marriage is and always has been, anything else is contrary to human nature

            • Dragon Rider (drag)
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              011 months ago

              Only two? That seems needlessly restrictive. Is it for religious reasons? Church and state should be separated.

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                If it was for religious reasons, I would have specified it as a “man and a woman”

                Also, if it’s more than two, that’s not a marriage; that’s a group chat.

        • @MagicShel@lemmy.zip
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          You’re thinking about this all wrong. The age of marriage and childbearing have been going up. Think of the kids who would just decide fuck it might as well just stay married and do this. This could be the arranged marriage of the future.