Like… I don’t know what’s the point. Eat heathy, and live a long life? Jesus christ, who has the energy for that?

Just eat whatever. Drink Sodas. Die. Who cares. There’s probably gonna be a global recession, or global great depression. Everyone around me is toxic. People in my country is toxic. The government is toxic. Why even live that long? Maybe my next incarnation will be better.

  • @GoofSchmoofer@lemmy.world
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    Just the opposite.

    With the potential of medical expenses rising, medication costs going up, insurance becoming shittier (if you’ll be able to afford it at all), staying healthy to continue to earn a paycheck (that is a depressing phrase), the potential of wide spread violence, I think its imperative to be as healthy and strong as you can be.

    You may also find yourself in a position where you’re the only one you can count on and if you are sickly, and weak then it will make things that much worse. Or you may find yourself in a position to help someone that has less ability to move and you’ll need to be in good health for their sake.

  • @ruekk@lemm.ee
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    Holy shit there’s so much ableism in these comments. @op you apparently stepped on some toes with this hot take

  • LostXOR
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    I’ve started running and hiking a lot more recently, and while it might be ultimately meaningless, it does a lot to help my mental health and it just feels good.

  • @uienia@lemmy.world
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    Spoken like a very young person. The problem is not as much the dying as what comes before it. Most people don’t just drop dead. For most unhealthy people, it is years and years of suffering from various ailments as soon as you get to a certain age.

    • ERROR: Earth.exe has crashedOP
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      For most unhealthy people, it is years and years of suffering from various ailments as soon as you get to a certain age.

      I’ll execute plan B: KMS 🙃

      • @YarHarSuperstar@lemmy.world
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        011 days ago

        Hey can I DM you? I have seen you around and I know you’re going through a lot but if you want to talk to someone about this stuff who gets it please feel free to reach out, we can work on this stuff together :)

        • ERROR: Earth.exe has crashedOP
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          Nah, I rather keep it open on the forum, DMs feel awkward for me… (and being open on the forums might help others reading this thread too, who are also facing similar struggles)

          What do you want to talk about? Got any cool TV Shows or Movies I can watch to feel better? I’m kinda bored and maybe some good content would cheer me up a bit. (I’m out of stuff to watch, nothing seems fun to me, I just watch random youtube videos right now)

          • @YarHarSuperstar@lemmy.world
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            All good, i definitely hear you. If that ever changes i hope you know that this offer is ongoing. Anyways, Adventure Time is my go to recommendation for comfort content, it’s like hundreds of episodes (plus comics and spin offs) of nearly 100% high quality good feel animation. So funny and with a really positive outlook overall. I’ve compared it to an epic poem told in a modern format before. Similarly I would recommend Steven Universe and The Owl House (oh and Bee & Puppycat) if you like cartoons like that at all. I have others too. Do you like stuff like that or what do you prefer?

      • @parmesan@lemmy.world
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        I feel you tbh but be aware these aren’t normal or mentally healthy thoughts to be having even when things are this fucked

      • @Shanmugha@lemmy.world
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        I must add to what Flax sad: most people here can’t be your therapist, I for one have zero qualifications for that

  • Maybe just try to stay reasonably healthy to annoy them. Eating crap leads to obesity and other health issues which make you weak, unhappy, dependent, isolated and (if you live in the US) also poor. Don’t let them win by making it easier for them to have power over you.

  • SharkEatingBreakfast
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    As someone who is handicapped through no fault of my own, it fills me with sorrow that you feel this way. Self-harm through neglect is no way to live.

    My handicap initially left me with no way to walk for nearly 2 years. No doctor would touch my case. My kid literally could not hug me. I was dependent on so many people during that time and could barely take care of anyone else.

    I cannot tell you what to do… but I’m probably not going to live very long anyway (thank you, genetics!), so I’d like to encourage you to find purpose. I found my purpose in creation by sewing, and it brings me overwhelming joy. My goal is to continue creating things to spread that joy to others.

    If that doesn’t convince you, please know this: there are evil, shitty people in power out there who revel in your self-destruction and actively want you to destroy yourself. Please do not let them win. Continue to do your best in order to spite them and help people who aren’t so fortunate.

  • guy
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    Well with the climate wars coming I want to be in peak shape to trample everyone else down and take my place as a warlord over as much territory as possible. Can’t do that if you’re out of shape

  • @collapse_already@lemmy.ml
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    You sound like you would enjoy the book, The Limits to Growth and its progress checking updates. The models suggest we’re in for a very bad time by 2040. The runup seems to have already begun. The neat thing is that the book doesn’t even include climate related catastrophe. They’re just bonus add on.

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    You only live once, so you should try to make your only life as good as you can.

    And living with health problems - even if that meant you would have a shorter life - can suck much more than just continuing to live without them.

  • @klemptor@startrek.website
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    Becoming healthy is tough and can suck. But being healthy is its own reward. I really enjoy eating clean, lifting weights, going on hikes in nature, etc. You can find joy in life through healthy living. YMMV if you don’t have the right attitude though ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

  • @treadful@lemmy.zip
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    012 days ago

    What’s worse than living in a dystopia? Living in a dystopia with a major medical issue.

  • Jeena
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    There is no incarnation, this is the only life you have and it’s up to you to make is as good as you can. Externalizing and blaming others for everything does not get you far.

    There is no afterlife, no nirvana, no reincarnation, you just sense to exist. Until then make an impression on the universe.

      • @protist@mander.xyz
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        012 days ago

        Without suffering, there is no enjoyment. What do you enjoy? What are you grateful for? “Nothing” is a cynical and avoidant answer here, because every person has legitimate answers to these two questions. What are yours?

        • @MelodiousFunk@slrpnk.net
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          Without suffering, there is no enjoyment.

          And yet even with suffering, there is also no enjoyment. Welcome to treatment resistant persistent depressive disorder!

          Can’t wait for Medicaid to get axed so I can go live in a concentration camp.